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Marital Relationships and SSI
Excerpt From: Eligible Couples, Vol. II February, 2004

Two people do not need to actually be legally married in order to be considered in a “marital relationship” for the purposes of SSI. The Social Security Act provides that a man and a woman, who are not legally married, yet who live in the same household are in a “marital relationship” for SSI purposes if they hold themselves out as husband and wife to the community in which they live. This provision is referred to as “holding out” by SSA. It applies even in states that do not recognize common-law or putative marriage. The SSA does NOT currently consider persons of the same sex to be married or in a marital relationship under any circumstances.

SSA usually accepts a person’s allegation about whether a marital relationship exists. However, SSA will ask a series of questions to decide if a “holding out” relationship exists when circumstances are uncertain. Form SSA-4178, Marital Relationship Questionnaire, is used for this purpose and includes following questions:

SSA Marital Relationship Questionnaire:

  • By what names are you known?
  • How do you introduce the other person to friends, relatives, and others?
  • How is mail addressed to you and to the other person?
  • Are there any bills, installments, contracts, tax returns, or other papers showing the two of you as husband and wife?
  • In what name or names are you renting or buying the place where you live?

SSA considers a man and a woman no longer married for SSI purposes as of the date that:

  • Either member of the couple dies;
  • An annulment or divorce is finalized;
  • Either member of the couple begins living with another person as that person’s spouse;
  • SSA decides that either person is not a spouse of the other for purposes of husband’s or wife’s Social Security benefits, if SSA considered the persons married because of that entitlement; or
  • The members of a couple who SSA determined to be holding themselves out as husband and wife begin living in separate households (with some exceptions).

If members of a couple report to SSA that their holding out relationship has ended, but they remain in the same household for financial reasons, SSA will request information from the couple supporting the fact the relationship has ended and efforts are being made to live in separate households.

For More Information see:
Eligible Couples, Vol. II February, 2004